Tami Rose of Jackson, Mississippi’s Romantic Adventures boutique is offering up a host of helpful tips on how to make the most of super-steamy shower sex!

While the idea of soaping each other up and getting slippery together seems super-erotic, Rose says that plenty of hazards abound when taking splashy fun to the next level. “Unfortunately, shower sex isn’t for everyone… it really only works safely if the participants are about the same height.

“It’s important to try to keep three points of contact on various surfaces to make sure you don’t slip and fall; we sell an amazing product from Sportsheets called Sex in the Shower Dual-Locking Suction Handle to ensure a perfect position and good grip point without hurting yourself. Buy two if you’re feeling particularly adventurous!”

For squeaky-clean foreplay, “think about installing a shower diverter to a bidet attachment; there is nothing sexier than the confidence that being clean brings to the party.” Need lube? Rose suggests using plenty of the silicone variety “because the water washes away your natural lubrication pretty quickly.”

As for bringing toys into the water, “silicone is a good option, but I personally love my glass toys in the Jacuzzi,” says Rose. “Glass takes on the temperature of the water very quickly and the sensation of the temperature change in the material is kind of wonderful.”