Arousr Arousr Social Media Manager FemmeFatale is sharing its chat hosts’ personal experiences on the popular sexting site through revealing interviews, and finding plenty of fascinating tidbits about people’s fantasies.

FemmeFatale recently interviewed China-based Arousr Host Mamacitabeso, who shares a few interesting stories about men wearing lingerie, her own preferences when it comes to dick pics, as well as cultural differences between the East and West when it comes to Kink.

“I don’t like somebody who is coming so straightforward, like saying ‘I’m horny, let’s play with me’… I would like to have some personal connection first… he could introduce himself and what he likes, showing he’s a gentleman.”

Mamacitabeso also explains that many of her customers enjoy ‘sissification’ and gender-bending role play – “he wanted both of us to dress in lingerie and have a gangbang with big dudes.”

She also offers her views on dick pics (“it has to be a nice dick!”) a client’s particular fetish (“he like to be gagged with panties and play with a dildo”) and Western culture shock (“in China we have weird, kinky fetishes but we use a different way to express it… talking behind and hiding it”).

Ultimately, Mamacitabeso believes that Arousr works for her on an intimate level, unlike other adult chat platforms. “Arousr is a one-to-one website, not like other sites with one girl playing and facing a lot of guys… we need personal connection. That’s the point!”

Find the full interview with FemmeFatale and Mamacitabeso on Arousr’s Medium page and via YouTube.